Coaching For Change

Introduction: I am a certified divorce recovery life coach, working with clients going through divorce and its aftermath, allowing them to let go of the emotional distress, glean the life lessons available, and move forward into a new life after divorce. I myself have gone through divorce, so I am all too familiar with the grief involved. I also am available for workshops and speaking engagements. Listen to what my clients have to say about life coaching for divorce recovery: Shelley has a gift for helping people who are stuck in any stage of the divorce process and want to move forward. She is warm and wise. When you are in divorce, it is like being in a tornado. The pain makes it hard to get your bearings, and to have faith that you will get out, and will arrive somewhere safe and sound. In many ways, you feel as though you are struggling for your very life. Shelley is your guide. She listens very carefully, has practical suggestions, supports you, but most importantly, she lights a candle in your tunnel and helps you feel your way out of the mess. You can trust her 100%, and she will not let you down. Forget spending money on quick fixes, sign up for coaching, and commit to really creating your new life out of the ashes. I did coaching for about 6 months, and it helped me more than I can possibly express. I am deeply grateful to Shelley. - Jitka Lom, M.D., Guam Shelley Stile makes all the difference. She manages to inspire, motivate, support and comfort with genuine empathy, a sense of humor and great purpose. Her wealth of knowledge and insight is enriched by her professional and personal experience. A successful divorce goes far beyond a fair and just legal resolution. For me it involves acceptance, clarity, and the desire and ability to live life with perspective, new energy, health and joy. Shelley’s coaching will enable you to achieve this. She is a must have for every divorcing and newly divorced woman. - Jill S., New Jersey I highly recommend Shelley’s counseling to anyone who is going through a divorce. I felt I had someone holding my hand, while giving me support with great advice. It really made a difference in my how I felt, and began seeing things differently. I was surprised at the knowledge I gained working with her. The advice not only pertained to my divorce situation, but I have found it and her tools very helpful in my day to day living. Follow her instruction, and you will receive the answers that will heal your wounds. Learn to live in the now of life. You will see the difference in how you feel immediately. I was a victim of divorce, now I am victorious over divorce! Now I love living my life. Thank you Shelley! - LaDonna A., Florida Shelley has been my beacon of hope in a very disheveled life, a life going through divorce and all the confusion, grief, fear and anger that brings. And oh yes, it brings more emotions to be sure, but it would take too long to list. I would often get the “deer stuck in the headlights” feeling, but she gives you the tools and know-how to get to the other side of divorce. She explains that the other side does not condemn you to a life of negative emotions and baggage, but rather a life of hope and fulfillment, a new life with you at the helm. Through actionable steps and keeping you focused on creating a new life of your making, she gets you through this difficult time in your life, all with a sharp wit and, at times, a toughness that is necessary, in order to quiet your inner gremlins who won’t shut up until Shelley shows up, to break up the pity party. And all the while, I always felt that Shelley really listens to me as if I’m her only client, and doesn’t offer cookie-cutter or one-size-fits-all advice. I’m not finished with my journey to the other side of divorce yet, but thanks to Shelley, I’m not dreading it. I’m now eager for it, and prepared for it. - Susan F., California