Rev. Deborah Gildart-Hanks

Introduction: I will work with you to not only prepare a lovely wedding service tailored to you but also to learn the tools needed to create a lasting marriage. My service includes premarital counseling, rehearsal, and the wedding itself. I have over 30 years of experience Celebrating weddings! It is one of my favorite parts of being a Pastor. I feel it is so important to not only prepare for a lovely wedding day, but to prepare you for a lifetime of meeting the challenges you marriage will bring. During your counseling we will cover: Your Family of Origin - how does the family you grew up in impact your relationship? Fighting - How to turn "winner vs loser" into a win/win situation Finances/budgeting "territorial" issues ("what way should that toilet paper roll go?" Sexuality/family planning Challenges from previous relationships Managing children/stepchildren in your marriage Anything else that should come up!