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My husband and I tried two other counselor’s without success. I sent a message to Ms. Wheeler and she responded back less than 5 mins. Also, in the 60 minutes we spent with her, she was able to bring more clarity to our situation that has been lingering over us for the past 3 years. What’s unique about Ms. Wheeler is that she is very patient and will communicate in a way that is very comforting. I was very hesitant about letting another counselor, therapist, etc back into our marriage, however, Ms. Wheeler listened to both of us and gave great feedback to allow us the ability to communicate more effectively with one another. I would definitely recommend her services to family or friends that need help.Apr 12, 2019Verified
Pre-marriage counseling was something that my fiancée and I wanted to do, we found Cheryl and began to work before we set the date for the wedding. We found so many more things in common, and created new joint traditions. We also documented our individual goals and goals as a couple, now we have a solid future to look forward too! Sincerely appreciate Cheryl’s insights.May 12, 2019Quantum Psychology Solutions *ONLINE* only's reply
Don't forget to invite me to the wedding!
I am so thankful to have found Cheryl. I have worked with different types of providers in the past, but never found anyone that understood what my life is like. Cheryl was able to determine how I personally think and interact with the world, she treated me as an individual and catered to my specific needs. What an experience to not feel like a label in a box. My life began in trauma when I was born and just continued building more horrible situations. My parents where never hands on and didn’t teach us the healthy way of handling life. I’ve worked very hard to avoid making the same mistakes in my life and with my new wife and kids. Thank goodness Cheryl is experienced in so many different areas of healing. We have successfully worked through each of the traumas, addiction and loss of my first marriage. I am now married to a lovely, kind woman, who we both respect and provide attention to each other. I owned my own hamster wheel of behaviors before starting work with Cheryl. If I got disturbing news at work or home I would escape into what I thought was a safe world created by drugs. I can’t believe how many years I was on that hamster wheel. I’ve learned to bring my work life skills into my personal life, my communication with others has changed completely. I’ve learned to recognize when triggers may come up, in the past I would have buckled and indulged in drugs and irrational behaviors. My wife now says she is so happy she has the new me! Today, my life is happy, comfortable and peaceful! I never thought this could happen. I’ve removed anything in my life that caused stress and pain. I was not content in the job I’d had for years, I was able to talk about different careers and find one that specifically speaks to me. Part of my sessions involved learning what makes me tick. I actually like being around other people, and making new friends. Even as a kid I choose to be alone and not play with other kids, I’ve come to see what a lonely life that was. I want better for my children, and now set a good example (so very different from my parents). Life satisfaction really is possible! I’ve found time to include activities I enjoy, such as running, hiking and fishing (sometimes alone and most of the time with my family). Enjoying the simple things in life and not taking things personally has also improved my health. Lowering my blood pressure and I hardly ever get angry. I even stopped smoking! In the past my moods of depression, anger, and anxiety drove my life. I’m now in charge of my life! Cheryl has taught me that everything is up to me, and that I choose how to move forward and what to do or not do, she calls this personal empowerment. Ok, so my ADD still needs a bit of polishing, but I feel really good about every other area of my life. I highly recommend working with Cheryl and giving her a chance to see how she works with you. I can promise that you won’t be a diagnosis in a box. Thank you Cheryl.Mar 26, 2019Quantum Psychology Solutions *ONLINE* only's reply
Sam, I enjoyed our work together. Your willingness to go deep inside your soul was wonderful! Best wishes!
I was first exposed to pornography at a young age and began watching it frequently in my mid to late teens. It was something that I kept mostly secret, except to friends who were involved in their own forms of sexual exploitation and seemed to normalize the behavior. After sometime, my pornography watching escalated into visiting massage parlors and prostitutes / escorts to indulge in sexual desires and fantasies; this I kept hidden from everyone. Looking back on it, there was a bit of a dichotomy that existed. On one hand, I thought this wasn’t a problem and that I could stop these behaviors at any time if I really wanted to, but on the other hand I felt hopeless, stuck and that there was no way to get out of this. Subsequently, partly spurred by seeing a friend make a change in his life, I decided that I had to start be completely honest with myself and others whom I cared form. At this time I knew I needed help and sought out Cheryl. It was very challenging to disclose what I was doing to her, because I had been keeping a secret so well for so many years and felt so much shame. However, Cheryl made this process much easier with her warmth, understanding and compassion. Aside from this, the person that I opened up to first was the one who I was hurting the most, my wife at the time. She made the decision to leave the relationship and I made the decision to continue counseling. It was very hard to separate from her, but opening up to her and continuing therapy was one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life. Sessions have not always been easy, and Cheryl has had such great insight as to when she needed to challenge me and when she needed to ease back. With her I have felt safe, supported, respected and empowered with the courage to examine my addictive / compulsive behaviors and change and grow. I can’t say enough about her abilities as a Life Coach. In conclusion, I no longer watch pornography, visit massage parlors / prostitutes or indulge in any type of behaviors or compulsions related to the sexual exploitation of another human being. I’m still triggered at times, but through therapy and self examination, the triggers have become MUCH LESS powerful, and I’m able to confidently cope and navigate through them. I continue to grow, and work on seeing women as human beings who have worth far beyond just gratifying some fantasy or desire. I have had to step up and take ownership of my own psychological and emotional challenges, instead of projecting them onto others. Again, this is not always easy and is an ongoing process, but even with the loss of my marriage, I feel so much better being free of the sexual behaviors / compulsions that haunted me for so long. And for this, I’m so grateful to Cheryl, and to the entire process of recovery and of healing!Jan 10, 2019Quantum Psychology Solutions *ONLINE* only's reply
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A great start to working together. She made us feel very comfortable! Highly recommend!Apr 9, 2019VerifiedQuantum Psychology Solutions *ONLINE* only's reply
I'm looking forward to working together!
- What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?Insurance does not pay or reimburse for services, however, HSA (Health Savings Accounts) *typically will cover the cost. *We can run a $1 fee to confirm if your HSA card covers services.
- What is your typical process for working with a new customer?We begin working in the very first session! If you have ever attended therapy in the past, you will note that life coaching is more of a collaborative process.
- What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?Graduated in 2007 with a Masters in Counseling Psychology Currently pursuing a Ph.D in Clinical Psychology (3 courses remaining). Practiced *psychotherapy for 12 years, recently closed my licensure to be able to work across state lines and to allow for more of a holistic approach. *All services providing as Transformational Life Coach. Please note coaching sessions are not to be considered psychotherapy in nature and are not appropriate for Serious Mental Health Illness’.