Introduction: I love diversity, period. I love just knowing that I am joining together love for as long as love is makes my heart and soul sing. It does not matter the couple's age, sexuality, color, religion, disabilities or anything else, it's the sparkle of true love that makes it worth my time. I have joined many in marriage, I have also said no a few times. I feel it is my responsibility to respect and honor the gift of True Life Lasting Love and sometimes I see desperation to save what was or just we have been together so long we know nothing else, so I must say no. I believe we are accountable for our actions in joining others 8f we know it is wrong.