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About
Congratulations on your engagement! I'm an ordained nondenominational Christian minister, not with an online "ordination," which isn't legally valid for performing weddings in North Carolina, Virginia, and Tennessee anyway. I perform both non-religious and religious weddings, and I've officiated at over 2500 marriage ceremonies, so I have plenty of experience in what makes the perfect ceremony. Having spent years working in radio, I have a voice folks enjoy hearing, and one that never needs a microphone to be heard.
My writing skills have always been praised for custom crafting ceremonies to fit the exact needs of the moment and the precise wishes of my clients. Also, I've spent time acting on the stage, so I know a lot about how to speak with style and grace without upstaging the two real stars of the show--the couple getting married! I've performed entire weddings in Spanish, Portuguese, German and French, and I've performed portions of ceremonies in ten other languages.
I don't offer any packages or discounts, as I think straightforward and clear pricing is the best. My base fee is $285 for a weekday wedding ceremony in the Triad, Triangle and Charlotte area, with fees higher for Friday afternoons and weekend afternoons. This
fee doesn't include a rehearsal, but if you wish to hire me to "run" your rehearsal I'll be happy to assist.
My job is all about helping two people find the highest possible joy in what should absolutely be one of the very happiest days of their lives. I reduce stress, solve problems, and find answers. My very best wishes to you both, and I look forward to having the opportunity to help you!
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12 years in business
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Need help writing vows?
I can work with couples who need help writing vows
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Customers rated this pro highly for professionalism, work quality, and responsiveness.
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Michelle M.
5 days ago
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Alex was absolutely outstanding even though we both ran into some complications. He still showed up and gave an amazing ceremony 10 out of 10. I recommend they only allow you to give five stars, but Alex made everything a lot easier and made me feel more confident with the decisions that we had made that day for our future thank you so much, Alex I suggest anybody who’s looking for a minister to marry them. I would definitely choose him.
Details: Elopement • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
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Robert S.
4 weeks ago
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Pastor Alex made himself available on an extremely short notice. He arrived right on time and performed the ceremony as if he had known the bride and groom for years. He really made the wedding very special. I can not recommend him enough. We were 1000% satisfied.
Details: Wedding • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
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Chris K.
Jun 13, 2026
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Let me start by saying that whatever this wonderful man charges is simply not enough for the incredible experience he provides on your special day. He is a true professional and an expert in every sense of the word.
From the moment he begins, you can feel his passion, warmth, and genuine care for the couples he serves. He has a remarkable gift for making your ceremony feel personal, meaningful, and unforgettable.
What a truly blessed and gifted man. If you're looking for a weddingofficiant who will exceed your expectations and help create memories you'll cherish forever, look no further.
Details: Elopement • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
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Sydney c.
Jun 16, 2026
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Alex was absolutely wonderful and so helpful! All the work put into our ceremony was so intentional. He truly cares so much and helps in anyway he can! I dont think we couldve had a better person to officiate our ceremony. He truly cares about making the day about you and your partner and also has such a way with words! We are so lucky to have found him and it wouldnt have been as beautiful as it was without him!
Details: Elopement • Non-religious (no mention of God) • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
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Keith W.
Jul 22, 2026
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Alex is a pro. Clearly has sharpened his skills over the years and can adapt to any request. He did our wedding in English and Spanish, which was a delight to the folks attending. He was puntual the day of our wedding plus very easy to communicate with over messages throughout all of the planning. Would highly recommend Alex for your wedding!
Details: Wedding • Non-religious (no mention of God) • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • Spanish • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
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Alexander Cheek
FAQs
What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?
I simply charge a flat fee of $285 for performing a wedding in the Triad, Triangle, and Charlotte regions (and anywhere in between) any time and any day except for Friday, Saturday and Sunday afternoons. If you wish to have me conduct your rehearsal that's a separate charge which I'd be more than happy to discuss.
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
I start by arranging for a deposit payment to reserve the date, and I immediately send them a legal contract as my bond and promise to do what I say I'll do. Then I'll ask questions to get the information I need to custom write their ceremony. I provide any information they need about marriage licenses and other legal details.
I love getting questions from clients, and never tire of answering them. I want my customers to be totally comfortable with me, and confident they have made the best choice for their ceremony. I will always share the benefit of my experience in any area. I've helped with reception menus, stocked the reception bar, and provided hotel and restaurant recommendations for couples' honeymooning plans. None of that was part of the ceremony, but it's the help they needed from me.
What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
Of course there's my formal religious education and ordination, but most of what I've learned about marriage and wedding ceremonies has come from hard-won experience. Over time you learn what works and what doesn't, and I'm constantly writing new material to meet the requests of my clients, I'm always on the lookout for new trends in weddings in order to share ideas with my clients. Unity candles and unity sand are still big right now, and the hand fasting ceremony is very popular with both religious and non-religious ceremonies. Fads come and go (no more zombie or Game of Thrones weddings), but the heart of the service--the love, the promises, the joining of two lives--stays the same.
