Hello, I am Nuran and I am a mindset coach specializing in helping overthinkers and self-doubters get unstuck and step their new life purpose.
I am founder of Nurvanalife Coaching and I'm not a therapist, but I am a human who has been through a lot.
I was feeling profoundly uncomfortable, off-balance, and wrestling with nagging questions about who I am and what I want to do with the rest of my life. For years, I had expertly mastered the art of productive procrastination—filling my days with striving, building, working, and sacrificing, all to avoid the terrifying silence of self-reflection.
But then came the disruption that no amount of busy-ness could outrun: the unimaginable loss of my child. This was the moment the old life shattered, the moment what used to work—the constant motion, the relentless avoidance—suddenly wasn’t just insufficient, it was impossible. The pain was a crucible, forcing me to confront the biggest questions about life’s purpose and meaning. Yes, this was a time of transition, but it was a transition born of the deepest grief a person can endure, bringing with it big, unavoidable questions about ‘what do I want to do with the rest of my life?’
That disruption is terrifying, but in the wreckage of my greatest loss, I found a huge amount of hope and opportunity. Because you get to decide what you want to do with your one and precious life — and that’s what I help people to do. I work with those who are stuck in that same loop of productive procrastination, doing everything except the one thing that will change their lives, often because they are avoiding a pain or a truth that feels too big to face.
After decades of delaying my own truth, and then being forced into clarity by a pain that stripped everything else away, I took the time to slow down and find out what is really most important for me. I started making more conscious choices and giving attention to parts of my life that had been on the back burner, perpetually put off until "tomorrow."
Crucially, I stopped to question the critical voice in my head—the ultimate tool of procrastination and self-sabotage—that was telling me: ‘you’re too old,’ ‘your time has passed,’ ‘you’re not good enough,’ or ‘it’s too late for you.’ Now, forged by loss and driven by a fierce new clarity, I know what I want and have a clear path to get there. This is why I love doing this work: because I know the paralyzing power of procrastination, and I know the ultimate cost of delaying a life well-lived. I know how life-changing it is to finally break free.
Do you want to stop putting off your best life and start feeling more alive, more vital, more creative, and more successful than ever before? Are you ready to feel that way too?
