FAQs
- What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?
Pricing is somewhat standard. There are always some higher and some lower. While price is often a factor in choosing your minister the few dollars up or down shouldn't be a main factor. Quotes are for the ceremony only. Public beaches require a permit. Rehearsals are extra. They are not always necessary - but certainly available. If you want to save money on that we can talk you through it over the phone. That's free :)
- What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
I listen to what is important to each couple. Then we start with a sample ceremony and determine if they want it tailored in any way to suit their personal preferences. Some ideas to modify a ceremony are: * choose another reading * family member or friend can do the reading * you can write your own vows in addition to OR instead of the vows you see * add on a lei presentation to parents and/or with one another * add a sand ceremony * incorporate any cultural aspects you like
- What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
While I attended Bible College and was both a senior and associate pastor over the years I would not say that this is the most valuable thing for a wedding minister. The most valuable training has been the many years of experience with weddings in general. I have done over 25,000 weddings - yes, really. I have experience with couples from all over the world, with different cultures, expectations, background stories, languages. I honor the individuality of each couple so they each feel special. Why is experience so important here? While it may be a bit more personal in nature when someone's pastor or friend officiates there are many aspects of a wedding ceremony in which he/she might not be aware. Such things can have a negative impact on the overall flow of the event. The tone of the event should be set with a relaxed, yet excited anticipation. Guests should feel this when they arrive. Inexperienced vendors can often lead to chaos and confusion, unanswered questions, and mostly, undue stress for the bride and groom. Experienced vendors who know their roles well will allow all of you to just arrive and enjoy. A minister is - in a way- the start of the show. Experience is certainly an asset. An experienced minister is also aware of the needs of the other vendors who are involved in creating your lifetime memory. For ex - I know how, as a minister, to set up particular shots so that your photo/video can capture the rings, the emotion, the kiss, etc. These are things you will want to re-live after the wedding day. When you, your bridal party and/or guests have questions I will know the answers and keep them all happy.