Bergen Marriage & Couples Counseling

Introduction: Based on experience with thousands of couples, and over 40 years of continued educatiion in my specialty, I have developed numerous techniques,. questionnaires, reading and other homework assignments e.g. couples meet with each other for a "business (of the relationship) meeting" and other approaches too numerous to mention here to help couples achieve their goals with each other as soon as possible. My website includes 20 articles that I authored including guides to comminication, problems of infidelity, the need to understand your partneer's needs as well as your own. In advance of the initial meeting, i send each partner a 20 page questionnaire which gives me a panorama of the strengths and weaknesses of the relationship and helps us jumpstart treatment at the very first meeting. Professionals have a high standard for confidentiality and do not seek comments or remarks from patients.for publication. My satisfaction comes from daily helping people out of their pain and misery into a life of peace, harmony. fulfillment and a better understanding of theri own needs and their spouses' needs and their own shortcomings (they already know their spouses' shortcomings) . I encourage and guide the ability of both to change for the better with the goal of happines for their partner as well as for themselves.