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About
As seen on theknot.com for "2023, 2024, 2025 and 2026 Best of Weddings", The Wedding Dance Whisperer is a choreographer team serving weddings in the New Jersey and the New York City area. This business is owned and run by Lexi. She has been dancing for over 30 years in the industry, a certified ballroom instructor and has her BFA in music and dance. Using her experience and talent, Lexi and her team work hard to make sure your dance is exactly how you envisioned it.. while of course having the time of your life learning the routine.
Lexi and her team always believe that it’s not just about the final dance but the experience leading up to it that is just as special!The Wedding Dance Whisperer team not only teaches you how to have a memorable first dance but also HOW to dance with your partner—a fun skill you can take with you for the rest of your lives!
In addition to wedding first dances, Lexi and her team also choreograph mother-son or father-daughter dances, group bachelor and bachelorette dances and offer virtual sessions. No matter where you are in the world, Lexi and her team have got your dance needs covered!
So let’s get dancing! xoxo
The Wedding Dance Whisperer Team
Overview
Hired 78 times
Serves New York, NY
Background checked
5 employees
4 years in business
Business hours
Sun10:00 am - 5:00 pmMon9:00 am - 6:00 pm
Payment methods
This pro accepts payments via Apple Pay, Cash, Credit card, PayPal, Square cash app, Venmo, and Zelle.
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Dance style
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My customers travel to me
I travel to my customers
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Reviews
Customers rated this pro highly for work quality, professionalism, and responsiveness.
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Yangzi H.
3 weeks ago
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Hired on Thumbtack
We loved working with Lexi and Lauren for our wedding dance! Lauren choreographed and taught us a beautiful dance for us to the song of our choice (Taylor Swift) and Lexi was very clear and organized in her communications with us in scheduling the lessons.
Details: Two (ex. me and my partner) • First dance • What my teacher recommends • Waltz • Slow Dance • No, I do not have choreography in mind • No experience • At the pro’s location
Wedding Dance Lessons
Abhinav B.
May 13, 2026
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Hired on Thumbtack
Ricardo was amazing to work with - we were able to accomplish an abbreviated version of the dirty dancing choreography culminating in the iconic lift, with his guidance! Lexi was great in setting up the class schedule and keeping us realistic in what we could accomplish. They make a professional team and I would recommend!
Details: Two (ex. me and my partner) • First dance • What my teacher recommends • Beginner • At the pro’s location
Wedding Dance Lessons
Sheila H.
Jun 26, 2025
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Hired on Thumbtack
Had a wonderful time learning. We are not dancers by any stretch but we pulled off a wedding dance thanks to Lexi. She made it fun, she had patience and she is very flexible. We can only do weekends so it worked out great. Would highly recommend, she saved us from embarrassing ourselves.
Details: 46-65 • Two people • Ballroom • No experience • Preparing for a wedding • 60 minutes • Once a week • At the pro’s location • My home, venue, etc.
Private Dance Lessons
Peter N.
Jun 28, 2026
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Hired on Thumbtack
Ricardo was an excellent teacher. He was very patient with us and really simplified concepts for us so we learned quickly. Highly recommend!
Details: Two (ex. me and my partner) • First dance • Slow Dance • I'm flexible • Beginner • At the pro’s location
Wedding Dance Lessons
Rosemary F.
Nov 15, 2024
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Hired on Thumbtack
I cannot express enough how amazing The Wedding Whisperer has been throughout my wedding planning process! From our very first lesson, Lexi was incredibly supportive, encouraging, genuine, and fun to be around. She helped my fiancee and I craft a beautiful short dance that perfectly reflected our love story. Her expertise and creativity turned what I thought would be a daunting task into a fun and memorable experience.
The choreography was tailored to our style, and she made sure we felt confident and comfortable every step of the way. I am so grateful for her dedication and patience. With practice, we were ready to showcase our dance on our big day! If you’re looking for a dance company or person who truly cares about their client and creates magic on the dance floor, look no further than Lexi. I highly recommend it!
Details: Two (ex. me and my partner) • First dance • Waltz • Slow Dance • No, I do not have choreography in mind • No experience • At the pro’s location • My home, venue, etc.
Wedding Dance Lessons
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FAQs
What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?
I always make sure to talk to the couple before we go over pricing to see what they are expecting and how many lessons they may need/want. There are so many different factors that go into choreographing a first dance!
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
We always make sure that we listen to what the couple wants and to make sure to deliver a dance that shows their personalities and love! We look at it as a collaborative process.
What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
I am a certified ballroom instructor and have worked at the top ballroom studios in NYC before branching out on my own!
In addition, I have a Bachelor of Music and Dance from the Chicago College of Performing arts.
