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Emily Orum, Men’s Confidence & Dating Coach

$150/session
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Responds in about 4 hours


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I help men build confidence, communicate clearly, and create real attraction—whether they’re dating or already in a relationship. If you’ve ever felt: * unsure what to say or how to lead * stuck in your head around women or dating * disconnected from your confidence, sexuality, or direction * frustrated by patterns that keep repeating —or, in a relationship: * feeling distant or disconnected from your partner * struggling with intimacy, desire, or sexual connection * navigating conflict, misunderstandings, or emotional shutdown * wanting to feel closer, but not knowing how to get there That’s exactly where we work. My Coaching Focuses On * Dating confidence and authentic communication * Emotional control and self-regulation * Building real attraction (not gimmicks or pickup tactics) * Masculine presence, leadership, and grounded confidence * Reconnecting to your sexuality and desire * Rebuilding intimacy and polarity in relationships * Navigating conflict with clarity and respect * Creating deeper emotional and physical connection with women My Approach This isn’t surface-level advice. This is about becoming the kind of man women naturally feel drawn to—because of who you are, not just what you say. For men in relationships, this work is about learning how to: * show up in a way your partner can actually feel * rebuild trust, attraction, and emotional safety * reconnect sexually without pressure or performance * lead connection, even through differences and conflict If you’re ready to grow into a more confident, grounded, and connected version of yourself—I’d be happy to connect.
Overview

Hired 1 time

Serves San Rafael, CA

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8 years in business

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SunClosedMon10:00 am - 8:00 pm

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This pro accepts payments via Cash, Venmo, and Zelle.

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18 - 25 years old

26 - 44 years old

45 - 64 years old

65 or older

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I work remotely (phone or internet)

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Michael C.

Apr 9, 2026

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Paul V.

Apr 19, 2026

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Scott C.

Apr 8, 2026

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Laurence A.

Apr 9, 2026

Working with Emily was a game-changer for me. I came in struggling with communication and getting triggered during conflict. She helped me understand what was happening beneath my reactions and gave me practical tools to stay present instead of shutting down or getting reactive. The biggest shift was learning how to move through challenges with more clarity and emotional control and actually use them to deepen connection instead of create distance. I feel more grounded, more open, and more capable in my relationships than ever before. I highly recommend Emily for any man who wants to grow and build deeper connection to self and to others.
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Thank you so much for your willingness to dive in so fully to look at your patterns that were causing distance and disconnection within your communication when in conflict! That is the real work- it was such a joy to see you implement the tools in real time and see the positive impact it has on your partnership and with your daughters!! So grateful for your dedication to growth, intimacy and love!
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James W.

Apr 8, 2026

As an older heavy man, I was very self-conscious of intimacy and nudity in front of a woman. Through guided imagery and Emily's patience and high-quality knowledge allowed me to break through this barrier and be able to fully express myself with a significant partner. Emily is amazing as a relationship coach and mentor.
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