Introduction: I am a pastor/worship pastor who gives premarital counseling.
Providing a spiritual foundation and going over each one's history of how they were raised, including the values they were or were not taught as youths, I ask them how they view their future, what it looks like after being married for 10 years.
My questions include the following:
* Are children a part of their lives?
* Do they use drugs and alcohol?
* What kinds of jobs do they prefer?
* How much income do they plan on making?