Hi, I am Matthew Hoelscher, founder of Parent Marriage Coaching.
I have found that many marriages begin to suffer communication issues after the first major marriage stressor. The most common stress is raising kids, along with work, in-laws, and other life changes.
I created the Emotionally Connected Couples Coaching (EC3) in response to the three most common marital issues, stupid fights, betrayals (infidelity) and feeling like you are roommates.
Babies cry when desperate to communicate their needs of love, food, sleep, comfort {aka: diaper change}. Adults pick stupid fights for attention.
I always hear about the dishes in the sink, but the REAL problem is never the dishes.
I love my work because I do not allow myself to be a referee of marriage fouls.
In the first 30 minutes of the session, I listen to concerns and ask questions to decipher what each needs to feel loved?
I teach each partner how to make requests in the language their partner feels most loved.
Couples then will practice recreating the feeling of connection before having a 10-minute conversation. Couples also learn how to take a "timeout" when things get too heated.
It is my intention to help find and practice excellent communication skills in our sessions so that you and your partner can get back to living in a happy, fulfilling, parent based marriage!
Please call or text my cell phone now for a quick 15-minute phone call with me to see if EC3 coaching will be a faster and more efficient solution than traditional therapy or counseling.
Having a child is the number one stress that all marriages must face. What starts out as a wonderful surprise soon becomes the source of anger and conflict.
All the attention that went to each partner is now all directed at the baby.
Parents forget about themselves, their spouse's needs and completely focus on the baby. There is usually a huge decrease in libido for women and a huge increase in men.
Small gestures of intimacy, like hugging and kissing get withheld as woman do not want to lead their men on to thinking that there might be sex later. Ignored needs result in partners protesting by withholding.
Men often report feeling like the bottom of the pyramid. Women feel drained and exhausted. They love their partners, but there is a deep need to be alone to recharge and take back control of their bodies.
My coaching focuses on teaching couples the secrets of emotional connection (intimacy). You both will feel reconnected and loved by your partner during the session and then we work on solutions to problems like finance, child raising, in-laws, and sexual frequency.
Please call my cell phone now for a quick 15-minute phone call with me to see if EC3 coaching will be a faster and more efficient solution than traditional therapy or counseling?
