Mid-Man. Psychotherapy & Marital Counseling Center
Mid-Man. Psychotherapy & Marital Counseling Center

Mid-Man. Psychotherapy & Marital Counseling Center

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Introduction: Most couples appreciate that I am active in the session and do not let them sit and fight. I give immediate empathic feedback about what I perceive keeps the couple stuck. I begin to help them identify the repetitive dances that continue to cause them to fall into the hole of hurt feelings and the pain that leads to withdrawal. In the session, I invite them to participate in specific new kinds of interaction that help them to feel heard, validated and cared. I help each partner to voice a deeper level of yearning rather than just expressing anger and frustration. I emphasize the need to allocate quality time to help them rekindle the joy of being together. I love the chance to be present with couples who sincerely want to find a new meaningful closeness in their relationship. When partners begin to soften and communicate their deeper yearning to each other I am thrilled. Their learning to truly "get the other" and validate the other's feelings feels rewarding to watch. As they reduce the intensity of the fighting and begin to look for win-win solutions I rejoice with them. To help them find a close loving bond again brings its on deep reward to me. I know that with these new tools and skills, they can be "with each other for the rest of their lives and provide a solid base for their children.
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  • What advice would you give a customer looking to hire a provider in your area of work?

    Trust your own sense about whether the chemistry is right. Both partners need to feel that the other person hears and "gets them" and is not taking sides. You will need someone who empathizes but challenges you in a way that each of you feel you can grow.

  • What questions should customers think through before talking to professionals about their project?

    Certified Marriage Counselors have special training in helping couples learn new ways of rebuilding their relationship. They specialize in recognizing the ineffective patterns of interaction. With empathy and skill, they invite couples to grow in developing a deeper level of trust and intimacy. Couples are invited to affirm differences in a way that leads to the creation of their bond as a wonderful team. Couples begin to give up trying to change the other and work on new levels of taking charge of their own issues and problems.