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Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating

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Whether you’re exchanging vows inside a church, in a backyard, at the beach, or on a mountain top, your wedding day should be exactly how you want it.........Fully customized ceremony per your specs...... Hi there, I’m Paul Becker. I specialize in making your wedding, your way - from Christ-centered or non-religious ceremonies to elopements, vow renewals, and last minute events. MY BACKGROUND & CREDENTIALS I bring both professional training and a heart for service to every couple I work with. - Ordained Chaplain, Christian Leaders Institute - Licensed Wedding Officiant, Christian Leaders Institute - Certified Wedding Officiant, Wedding MBA - Member, International Association of Professional Wedding Officiants (IAPWO) - Board Certified Christian Counselor, National Association of Christian Counselors WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT WHEN YOU WORK WITH ME I provide a truly all-inclusive, hands-on experience, so you can relax knowing every detail is covered. - Initial in-person (preferred) or Zoom consultation to get to know you as a couple. - Ongoing meetings and support as needed leading up to the wedding. - Monthly check-ins to keep everything on track. - A fully custom-written ceremony based on your preferences and beliefs. - Your full review and final approval of the ceremony script. - Optional unity ceremonies (handfasting, sand pouring, candle lighting, etc.) - In-person attendance at the rehearsal. - Arrival at the venue 1.5–2 hours early on the wedding day to put your mind at ease. - Professional officiating of your ceremony. - Completion and signing of the marriage license. - Delivery of the marriage license to the County Clerk’s Office. - Availability for photos with the officiant before or after the ceremony. - Fully insured for your peace of mind. INCLUDED AT NO ADDITIONAL COST - 6 Week Faith-Based Premarital Counseling & Training Course Designed to help you build a strong, healthy foundation as you begin married life together. SIMPLE TRANSPARENT PRICING I offer a flat, all-inclusive rate of $375— no confusing packages, no hidden fees, and no surprise add-ons. In-person attendance for rehearsal is an additional charge. 📆 Book your consultation today and let’s start creating a ceremony that truly reflects your love story.
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1 year in business

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I can work with couples who need help writing vows

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Liliana G.

Jul 5, 2026

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Paul was an amazing officiant! He did an absolutely fantastic job and was a very important part of our day coming together. He was so professional and friendly. He was a pleasure to have at our wedding. He got along with our guests and our best man had a great time talking with him. He was very punctual and had great communication with us before and after the wedding. We had a themed wedding and Paul was happy to play a role in making it happen. He dressed up and wrote the ceremony speech to fit our theme. We are so glad we got Paul to be our officiant. He helped make our wedding unforgettable and we are so thankful to him.

Details: Wedding • Non-denominational (mentions God) • 51 - 100 guests • Help writing vows will be needed • English • Officiant will be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Thank you so much, Liliana, for such a thoughtful review. It was truly an honor to officiate your and Josh’s medieval-themed wedding and to help bring your vision to life through the ceremony, script, and attire. I had a wonderful time celebrating with you, your families, and your guests, and I am grateful to have been part of such a unique and unforgettable day. May your marriage be filled with lasting love, joy, adventure, and many blessings in the years ahead.
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Diana Q.

4 weeks ago

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I had the privilege of meeting Paul when I hired him for a business blessing and the experience was truly meaningful. From the moment he arrived, he brought warmth, professionalism, and a genuine sense of care that made the ceremony feel very special. His words were thoughtful, heartfelt, and inspiring, creating an atmosphere of hope, and gratitude. He took the time to understand the significance of the occasion and made the blessing feel personal and memorable. I am grateful for his guidance and kindness, and I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone looking for an officiant for a business blessing or any special ceremony. Thank you for your help with such a beautiful blessing!

Details: Commitment ceremony • Non-denominational (mentions God) • 21 - 50 guests • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Thank you so much, Diana, for your thoughtful and encouraging review. It has been a pleasure working with you and an honor to bless Francisco and Lupita’s restaurant last October. I truly appreciate the care you put into coordinating such a meaningful occasion, and I am grateful for the opportunity to return this Sunday to bless their second location. May God continue to bless Francisco and Lupita, their staff, their customers, both restaurants, and of course you, with peace, favor, and lasting success.
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Cynthia S.

Feb 28, 2026

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Details: Elopement • Catholic • 21 - 50 guests • Help writing vows will be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

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Tracie S.

Apr 15, 2026

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I highly recommend Chaplain Paul to be your wedding officiant. He provided exceptional service and made my wedding day memorable.

Details: Wedding • Non-denominational (mentions God) • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Tracie, thank you so much for your kind words—I truly appreciate you taking the time to share your experience! It was such an honor to be part of your special day. Your ceremony in beautiful Hillcrest Park, with the gorgeous fountain flowing behind you, created such a peaceful and memorable setting—it really was something special. Moments like that are exactly why I love what I do. Wishing you and John a lifetime filled with love, joy, and continued blessings. Thank you again for trusting me to be a part of your wedding day! —Chaplain Paul Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating “Weddings Your Way – Elegant, Extreme, and Everything In Between.”
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Chris L.

Dec 6, 2025

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Paul was exceptional. He handled our unique, last-minute wedding wants and needs like a true professional. He felt like family, he was flexible, he followed through on everything he said he would. We hired him on very short notice and he was so understanding of what we were going through. Our special day would not have been as perfect as it was without him. Can't imagine any one else doing what he did for us. Honored to be married by Paul. We highly recommend him to everyone in-need of an officiant. He's the best.

Details: Elopement • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Chris & Summer, thank you sincerely for sharing such a heartfelt review. Reading your words truly means more to me than you know. Being able to step in and support you during a last-minute, deeply personal wedding was an honor I don’t take lightly. Your trust, openness, and the circumstances surrounding your day made it especially meaningful, and I’m grateful I could be there to help create a ceremony that felt right for you. I’m humbled by your recommendation and honored to have been the one to officiate your marriage. Thank you for allowing me into such an important moment in your lives. Wishing you both many blessings to come!! Warmly, Paul Becker, Chaplain Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating
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