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Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating

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$300
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Whether you’re exchanging vows inside a church, in a backyard, at the top of a mountain, or mid-skydive (yes, you read that right), I bring professionalism, creativity, and heart to every moment. This day is about your vision...... Hi there, I’m Paul — an Ordained Chaplain and Licensed Wedding Officiant. I specialize in making your wedding, your way - whether that's a Christ-based ceremony, a non-religious ceremony, or a renewing of your existing vows and love for one another. You get: - Initial in-person (preferred) / zoom meeting - to get to know you on a personal level. - Ongoing meetings thereafter, as needed. - Monthly check in's until wedding day. - Custom wedding ceremony per your specifications. - Addition of unity ceremonies ie: handfasting, sand poring, candle lighting, if desired. - In-person attendance at rehearsal. - Arrival at the ceremony 1.5 - 2 hours early. - Officiating of the ceremony. - Signing of the marriage license. - Delivering of the marriage license to the County Clerk's Office. - I will remain after the ceremony as long as needed if additional pictures are wanted. - 6 week pre-marital training course to create a firm foundation for you to begin your life. - Fully Insured Wedding Officiant I offer an all-inclusive flat rate of $300 — no confusing packages, hidden fees, or surprise add-ons. 📆Book your appointment today!!!
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Hired 13 times

2 similar jobs done near you

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1 year in business

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Christian

Catholic

Interfaith

Non-denominational (mentions God)

Need help writing vows?

I can work with couples who need help writing vows

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Customers rated this pro highly for work quality, professionalism, and responsiveness.

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Chris L.

Dec 6, 2025

Hired on Thumbtack

Paul was exceptional. He handled our unique, last-minute wedding wants and needs like a true professional. He felt like family, he was flexible, he followed through on everything he said he would. We hired him on very short notice and he was so understanding of what we were going through. Our special day would not have been as perfect as it was without him. Can't imagine any one else doing what he did for us. Honored to be married by Paul. We highly recommend him to everyone in-need of an officiant. He's the best.

Details: Elopement • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Chris & Summer, thank you sincerely for sharing such a heartfelt review. Reading your words truly means more to me than you know. Being able to step in and support you during a last-minute, deeply personal wedding was an honor I don’t take lightly. Your trust, openness, and the circumstances surrounding your day made it especially meaningful, and I’m grateful I could be there to help create a ceremony that felt right for you. I’m humbled by your recommendation and honored to have been the one to officiate your marriage. Thank you for allowing me into such an important moment in your lives. Wishing you both many blessings to come!! Warmly, Paul Becker, Chaplain Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating
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Jean C.

Nov 22, 2025

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Paul was amazing! Our wedding was a little last-minute, and he went above and beyond to help us. Paul met with us in person beforehand just to get to know us, and he was so warm, kind, and easy to connect with. It felt like talking with a friend, not just a wedding officiant, it really put us at ease. He delivered a beautiful, faith-based ceremony and was incredibly flexible with our tight timeline. We have also started his premarital counseling (since we didn’t have time to do it beforehand), and it has been incredible. We have only positive things to say thus far about it. If you want someone who is truly invested in you, not just your ceremony, cares about your future as a married couple, Chaplain Paul is the one. Highly recommend!

Details: Wedding • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Jean & Joe, Thank you both for such a thoughtful and meaningful review. Being able to sit down together, connect personally, and then walk with you through a faith-based ceremony on a tight timeline was an honor. I’m so glad the process felt natural and supportive, exactly as it should. I’m also encouraged to hear how meaningful the premarital counseling has been for you. My heart is always for the marriage, not just the ceremony, and it means a great deal to know that this support is serving you well as you begin life together. Thank you again for the recommendation and for allowing me to be part of both your wedding and your continued journey. Wishing you a strong, joy-filled, and faith-centered life together. Warm regards, Paul Becker, Chaplain Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating
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David B.

Oct 27, 2025

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“Paul Made Our Wedding Truly Unforgettable!” From the very first call with Paul at Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating, we could feel his genuine heart and passion for what he does. He didn’t just ask about dates and details — he wanted to know our story, who we are, and what kind of love we share. That meant everything to us. We had a beautiful outdoor wedding at a winery. There was a minor glitch with one of the venders, the DJ, and Paul calmed us all down and worked right through it like it never even happened. We were amazed by how professional yet down-to-earth he was throughout the entire process. From helping us choose our vows, offering up suggestions and different viewpoints, to of course, overcoming the DJ issue. Paul went above and beyond. You can tell this isn’t just a job for him — it’s a calling. If you want an officiant who will make your ceremony meaningful, memorable, and uniquely yours, look no further. My wife and I highly recommend Paul Becker and Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating. We’ll never forget what he brought to our special day.

Details: Wedding • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • I'm flexible • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
David & Vanessa, thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience with Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating. It was truly an honor to officiate your beautiful winery wedding and to help create a ceremony that reflected your unique love story. I’m grateful for your trust throughout the planning process and on your wedding day, and I’m so glad I could help keep everything calm and focused when the unexpected arose. Serving couples in a meaningful, personal way is exactly why I love being a wedding officiant, and your kind words mean the world to me. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness—thank you again!!!! Paul Becker, Chaplain Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating
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Monica B.

Oct 7, 2025

We’re currently working with Paul, and he’s been absolutely wonderful! His passion for creating the perfect ceremony is unmatched — he listens, personalizes every detail, and truly cares about making our day special. We already know our wedding will be amazing with Paul as our officiant!
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Hailey A.

6 days ago

Hired on Thumbtack

Paul was wonderful from start to finish. After an unforeseeable event, Paul stepped in with ease and was very flexible as well as professional. He was helpful and beyond personable. He was communicative and understanding every step of the way. My husband and I enjoyed working with him and would highly recommend him to anyone looking for their dream ceremony.

Details: Wedding • Non-denominational (mentions God) • 51 - 100 guests • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal

Elegant To Extreme Wedding Officiating's reply
Jared & Hailey, thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to share your experience. It truly means a lot to me. I’m grateful for the trust you placed in me, especially when the unexpected arose. Being flexible, calm, and fully present for my couples is always a priority, and I’m so glad I could support you both every step of the way. It was a pleasure working with you and being part of your wedding day. Thank you again for the recommendation, and I wish you both a lifetime filled with love, joy, and happiness together. Warm regards, Paul Becker, Chaplain Elegant to Extreme Wedding Officiating
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