"We met Ruth and Neal at a cross roads in our marriage. Both felt as though we were not being heard or understood, and both felt as though the other was more preoccupied with other areas of life and not focused on the 2nd most important relationship - our marriage. Ruth and Neal listened and made sure we listened. They challenged each of us in different ways and enabled us to work through difficult topics, the kind you never think you can get through with your spouse. We are in a much better place, more tender, more attuned, more generous. Its real work and does not come about after 2 easy sessions. Rather it is learning and trusting the tools and the Lord and then working at it that moves the needle. We just could not have gotten where we are today if it were not for Ruth and Neal. The Husband/Wife tag team approach they employ is unique and allowed each of us to feel as though when we spoke, we were understood. In the same breadth, each of them has their own way of coming at an issue and challenging your thinking. They are both wise and very connected to you in the sessions. High levels of emotional intelligence are present in both of them and they both understand the importance of inviting the Lord into the room and the discussions.
I sure hope if you are reading this and considering counselling, you will commit yourself to the process and find a couple like Ruth and Neal to shepherd you through. They have been an incredible blessing to us and I think you will find the same will be true for you."