Promises and Petals
Promises and Petals

Promises and Petals

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Introduction: Marriage is the creation of something new and beautiful. My desire is to create a ceremony that is stress free and special for you. I love working together with couples to create an experience that reflects you and your fiancé. At times a couple may feel uncertain navigating unfamiliar wedding traditions in today’s world. Marriage is a beautiful ancient custom that accommodates each couple that commits to it. I am happy to share my experience to guide you through the process and work with you to incorporate your ideas and inspirations. I strive to make your ceremony look and sound the way you imagined it. After all, your wedding ceremony should reflect the love you share with one another. I also specialize in Premarital Mentoring and would love to walk with you and your fiancé through this valuable and sacred journey.

Hired 16 times

Serves Mequon, WI

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2 years in business

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Nicole H.
Jun 25, 2022
We decided we wanted to take the traditional route and go to marriage counseling with our officiant before the wedding. Each session, Pastor Dean made us feel so comfortable and relaxed the entire time and the time spent flew by. He made it easy to open up to each other and feel comfortable being vulnerable, by offering his real life experiences and thoughts on how important it is to understand each other. He offered great literature that we still use in our everyday lives today. He did a great job at our rehearsal and ceremony and he supported us through our entire journey. If you are looking for someone who is focused on you, before, during, and after your big day, Pastor Dean Stelow is a great opportunity.
Promises and Petals's reply
What a gift it was to journey with you both! Thank You!
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Ricky P.
May 31, 2022
My wife and I had an amazing ceremony with the help from pastor Dean. He sat down with us and wanted to get to know our story so that he can make the ceremony as intimate as possible, which he succeeded. I highly recommend pastor Dean to officiate your wedding!
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Julie B.
Sep 1, 2021
There are not enough words to describe how incredibly wonderful Dean is. He married my husband and me in 2014. As a blended family, we had our challenges and Dean helped us navigate that in such a positive way. From the pre-marriage counseling that was specific to us, to officiating our wedding, and to now, 7 years later, Dean has always made himself available to us. He is genuine in his care and compassion. We love him, his wife Rhonda, and their children and are truly blessed in their friendship.
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Kristin S.
Sep 1, 2021
It was wonderful to work with Dean! He provided both counseling services and officiated our wedding. Counseling opened up a lot of topics to discuss prior to marriage which prepared us for the future. Our ceremony was beautiful, well spoken and customized to my husband and I. I would highly recommend working with Dean!
Promises and Petals's reply
Thank You Kristin! It was such a gift to be a part of your lives.
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Jake K.
Sep 1, 2021
Dean was an amazing officiant. He kept the ceremony moving along well, reminded us to breath (phwew!) and added the personal touch that makes a wedding ceremony amazing and something to be remembered forever. Planning was very easy, and he walked us through all the necessary steps prior to ensure we were comfortable. Thank you Dean!
Promises and Petals's reply
Thanks Jake! It was truly an honor.
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Alfred Stelow


  • What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?

    Dean Stelow has been married to his high school sweetheart for 26 years. They have 6 truly amazing children, 3 boys and 3 girls. Dean has 25 years of pastoral experience. He is a certified premarital mentor with Prepare/Enrich. Dean has had the privilege of studying the Enneagram with Suzanne Stabile. He has also been trained in The Whole Life Mentoring Model by Wes Roberts, founder of Leadership Design Group. ​ Dean is a gifted speaker, writer and spiritual mentor. He is also the founder of Reorient Consulting LLC and Reorient Mentoring.

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