Introduction: I try our best to make things convenient for you by offering online sessions as well as phone sessions. If you would like to try this method out to see if you're comfortable please let me know and I'll be more than happy to do a free consultation at your convenience. This will not only save you time but money when it comes to travel costs.
Life is really not that complicated, so many of the issues that I deal with are variations of the same thing. You must really listen and feel what the person is dealing with. If you can't see what they see, your help will be no more then a cookie cutter response. I am not afraid to tell someone " I don't know." But not only do I have an insatiable curiosity, I pride myself on being the "Google" Queen (lol) and IF I don't know? I do my "dangest" to find out. Because when a session is over, I want you to feel good, it's not about me looking good. I might be one of the only Relationship Coaches that work with couples not only "together" but often "individually". I see all the aspects of a relationship as the tires on a car and the people involved are the reason the tire goes flat. What's the point of fixing the tire over and over and over again when the tire will only go flat a short time later? I like to focus on the reason the tire is going "flat" first, then focus on fixing the tire. I was born an Empath (and no, that's not "psychic" although, everyone is psychic to a degree.)
I just "feel" Energy. but I'm also highly trained in Psychology and Neurolinguistics (the art and science of communication). I use my training and skills to process information and then I feed it back. I've been told it's entertaining. You may have realized that at this point, insurance companies won't recognize this much-needed type of help, but I assure you I'm worth it. lol.
I like knowing that I'm able to lead people to discover their answers. Out of the Tangled Web's name was chosen because we do "tangle" ourselves up.
Relationship Coaching is like a professional friendship. Your coach will get to know you, will listen to what you have to say, will accept you, just the way you are and will care about your relationships as much as you will. Your coach will help you find where your communication may be stuck, where you may be going in different directions, and show you ways to restore the harmony. Your coach will encourage you and keep in touch with you for as long as you want to be coached.
Your coach will also teach each of you some powerful and time-tested tools to “rearrange” your thoughts and feelings and “make sense” out of them. Your coach will push you to practice these tools and use them in your relationships, outside of sessions, so that you will get results and experience success and happiness.
As a Master Certified Coach with Masters in Counseling Psychology and Neurolinguistics (the art and science of communication), Mia integrates a service that helps individuals and couples in cooperative communication, understanding perspectives, and re-writing the "scripts" that we have written in our head, hearts, and subsequent behaviors. When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at will change. (Wayne Dyer)
Mia holds a Master Certification in Usui Reiki practices Emotional Reiki Healing and Balancing. She designed a program which provides an "Emotional Wake" for unresolved and disharmonious emotional and spiritual Energies. Contact her for more information. in keeping with the principles of the Law of Attraction, we attract the Energy that we emit, for like Energy will seek its form. What we bring to each relationship is our Energy, through our consciousness, but even though our unconscious. What we bring to the "table" influences what we take away.
Relationship Coaching does not resolve always your issues, Mia is also an Advanced Relationship and Family Mediator and belongs both the Texas Association of Mediators and the National Association of Mediators. She provides both Relationship Mediation and Divorce and Child Custody Mediation as Mediation is a process that allows you to have control over the terms (and COSTS) of your decision to move on with your lives.
Mia is also a Nationally Certified Child Custody Evaluator and Parenting Coordinator. She acts as an intermediary when there is difficulty resolving the issues that arise from making decisions about Custody, Visitation, and all the other things that prevent a cooperative, harmonious lifestyle for you and any children who are impacted in the future. These issues can involve Custody, Visitation and Parenting styles.
As a Writer, Entrepreneur and Business Coach, Mia uses a Lifetime of knowledge, Training and innovative thinking to help you design and promote your personal and business goals. She has had a successful, lucrative Private Practice for many years and is an accomplished Public Speaker. She designs workshops and Retreats.
Mia is a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor and provides Supervision for future Licensed Professional Counselors as they complete the requirements for State Licensure. She teaches Parenting and Anger Management and can be contacted for services.
Mia is a Clinical Director of a Practice located in Boerne, Texas with satellite offices throughout rural areas in Texas. Mia is experienced and open to providing Remote consultations for all Coaching and Mediation Services.
Relationships are the key to so many things: finding and keeping your Partner, finding and keeping your job, getting along with your family, closing deals, enjoying parties and social life and more.
But how do we balance our physical, mental and spiritual well-being, as well as our social, family and work needs? This is certainly a big challenge.
I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love (or even, like)you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. And sometimes that begins with loving and liking oneself.
I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.
I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you or feel about the way you want them to, it doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t love or care about you all he or she can.
I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change. We are ever-evolving, and so are our relationships. It's when we insist that our relationships stay in familiar patterns that we run into difficulty.
I’ve learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. Everything is perspective and our "perspectives" are determined by our "Human Domestication" a "script" that is written consciously and unconsciously from the moment of our Birth, based on the people, places, and things we have experienced in our lives. Sometimes if something is "not" working, either individually, in any form of relationship or setting, it is because we need to re-write our script. Neurolinguistics is a means to accomplish this.
I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love or care for each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do. Sometimes an uninvolved Mediator has to translate the "language" we are using so we are clear what our expectations for others (and ourselves) are.
I utilize many different tools, through Life and Relationship Coaching (including in some cases Vocational Coaching); the How to Fascinate Inventory (How you see the World and how the World sees you-and how to structure your relationships, strengths, and weaknesses to best serve you) and incorporating don Miguel Ruiz' Five Agreements into your daily life. All designed to help you be the "best" you can be, have full self-acceptance and to stand proudly in who and what you are, knowing what you deserve. The rest falls into place.
