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About
I am a marriage officiant with registration in NY. I've been awarded "Best of Thumbtack" every year since 2015.
I do a thoughtful ceremony created with elements of the couple's personal narrative. It's important to me that the ceremony includes all the elements that the Bride and Groom desire. So in that respect, I try to stay out of the way and let them shine. Thoughtfully written vows and a little bit of humor makes for a great ceremony.
Helping couples craft their perfect wedding ceremony is quite rewarding. When the father of the Bride comes over at the end and says, "That was wonderful. Thank you so much" or the mother of the Groom says, "That was the most entertaining ceremony I have ever seen" that makes my work so special.
Overview
Hired 91 times
47 similar jobs done near you
Background checked
1 employee
11 years in business
Business hours
Sun8:00 am - 11:59 pmMon8:00 am - 11:59 pm
Payment methods
This pro accepts payments via Apple Pay, Cash, Credit card, PayPal, Venmo, and Zelle.
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Services offered
Type of ceremony
Service type (affiliation)
Christian
Catholic
Interfaith
Non-denominational (mentions God)
Need help writing vows?
I can work with couples who need help writing vows
Projects and media
Projects and media
Reviews
Customers rated this pro highly for professionalism, punctuality, and responsiveness.
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Westley Y.
4 days ago
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Hired on Thumbtack
Ross did a 10/10 job for our ceremony. We were traveling to NYC and didn't know any people/churches in the area, so I was a little nervous. Ross knocked it out of the park. His words were very well thought out, he did a great job making it very personal to us, and he did a great job picking up on exactly what we were looking for. I highly recommend him to anyone.
Details: Elopement • Christian • 20 guests or fewer • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
Wedding Officiant
Mike M.
Nov 23, 2024
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Hired on Thumbtack
If you’re looking for an officiant, you’ve found the one! Ross was easily one of our favorite vendors for our wedding. He was incredibly professional, well-spoken, and made our wedding day completely stress-free. Ross went above and beyond to create a beautiful, personalized ceremony, weaving in heartfelt details of our love story. Our guests were absolutely blown away. Highly recommend!
Details: Wedding • Non-denominational (mentions God) • 51 - 100 guests • Help writing vows will not be needed • English • Officiant will not be needed at the rehearsal
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Christina N.
Aug 20, 2024
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Hired on Thumbtack
Ross is exceptional at his craft. First off, he made my husband and I extremely comfortable the first time speaking with him. Felt like we knew Ross for years. He was there earlier, to talk to us and meet some of our family. We felt relief not having to reach out that day. Our ceremony had such an upbeat, entertaining, and lovable flow. I had never seen so many people entertained like they were at a wedding ceremony before. He respected our religious beliefs and incorporated them tastefully into our ceremony. He just gets it and takes the time to learn about you as a couple to find all the right things to say. I would 100 percent recommend Ross. Thank you for making our wedding so special.
I got married in Central Park on 10/8/17. The officiant I had initially hired a year before, cancelled on my last minute and I was lucky enough to find Ross and book him just a few days before my wedding. We had a chat over the phone and I went over the things that were needed for the ceremony and oh boy did he deliver. He was so prepared and professional I was even happy that my initial officiant cancelled. Because of last-minute-wedding-chaos I forgot to provide him with the bible verse that I wanted to be read at the ceremony but Ross read a BEAUTIFUL verse from the book of Paul that I had never heard at a wedding before and that was one of my highlights of the ceremony. He exuded so much warm and care through out the ceremony that it would've been the same without him. I highly recommend him for your ceremony. I will add pictures soon.
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Morgan N.
Jul 17, 2017
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Hired on Thumbtack
Ross Decker was the absolute perfect officiant for us! He arrived on time, went through what we had to say before hand and made the ceremony absolutely incredible. He was funny, captivating, and drew our audience into the service. He was an absolute delight to work with! We were able to schedule him the week of our wedding and he created an entire service and a night to remember. Amazing officiant and person! Would 100% recommend to anyone needing an officiant. Amazing service and night! Thank you so much!!
Ross Decker Marriage Officiant's reply
Your wedding was so much fun to officiate. Thanks for picking me. Best to you both.
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FAQs
What should the customer know about your pricing (e.g., discounts, fees)?
My fee depends on the ceremony location and how much planning and customization you’d like. I’ll give you a clear quote before you book, including any travel or rehearsal fees.
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
We usually start with a phone call so I can get to know you and hear what you’re envisioning. I’ll follow up by email, and, when schedules allow, I’m happy to meet in person. Together, we’ll shape a ceremony that feels true to you, whether you want something traditional, personal, brief, or a blend of styles.
What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
I have a religious educational background and experience creating both religious and nonreligious wedding ceremonies. I’m authorized to officiate weddings in New York. My approach is to listen closely to each couple and create a ceremony that respects their beliefs and wishes.
