Find a lesbian wedding officiant near Tulsa, OK

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Top 10 lesbian wedding officiants near Tulsa, OK

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4.9
from 10 reviews
4.9
(10)
GREAT VALUE
  • 21 hires on Thumbtack
"We are so happy Katie was willing to officiate our wedding with such short notice! She met with us at our rehearsal, answered any questions we had, and she helped greatly to make our wedding exactly what we wanted it to be! Short and sweet that is! I would highly recommend her to anyone looking for an officiant!"

$80

estimated cost

5.0
from 16 reviews
5.0
(16)
GREAT VALUE
  • 15 years in business
  • 15 hires on Thumbtack
"My husband and I picked Pastor Walt Because he was a real nice person and laid back. Unfortunately we thought the wedding would take 1/2 hour but he and his sweet wife Rose had to wait 4 hours for me to show up because I was not ready with my children. His wife helps out as in helping our wedding costs for marriage license fee to be lowered. We want to thank them both and sorry so late for posting a BIG THANK YOU - :) "

$75

estimated cost

5.0
from 31 reviews
5.0
(31)
IN HIGH DEMAND
  • 9 years in business
  • 54 hires on Thumbtack
"Diana made my wedding ceremony very easy for us. She was extremely nice, well prepared and on time for our services. We are absolutely thankful for her and could not have picked a better wedding officiant! I 100% recommend her!"

$150

estimated cost

5.0
from 3 reviews
5.0
(3)
  • 10 years in business
"My husband and I were married in August of 2014 in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Pastor Greg drove all the way there at no extra charge. He was extremely professional and helped us through the process. He even filed out marriage license for us! I highly recommend him."

$175

estimated cost

5.0
from 3 reviews
5.0
(3)
  • 16 years in business
  • 3 hires on Thumbtack
"Really great to work with Alan! Easy to talk to, share ideas and he gave some examples of the way we could do things! So, I was able to kind of pick and make it our own way of what the wedding ceremony was going to be! Thank you Alan for making it a great and amazing ceremony! Couldn’t have gone better! Sincerely Thank You, Celio & Aimee Olmos"

$175

estimated cost

5.0
from 1 review
5.0
(1)
  • 10 years in business
"When you are looking for an officiant to complete your service from start to finish, look no further than our services."

$175

estimated cost

4.9
from 45 reviews
4.9
(45)
IN HIGH DEMAND
  • 20 years in business
  • 78 hires on Thumbtack
"Hired to perform wedding officiant services. Was extremely personable and warm. Made my couple feel completely at ease and the entire wedding party really took to him. The perfect choice for this couple! "
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5.0
from 2 reviews
5.0
(2)
  • 2 years in business
  • 3 hires on Thumbtack
"Hilary officiated our son's wedding this weekend. She took the time to know the 💑. Ther ceremony left their guest in awe. We would highly recommend Hilary. Thanks!!"
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5.0
from 9 reviews
5.0
(9)
  • 7 years in business
"James was the perfect wedding officiant for our small wedding. He was available on extremely short notice too."
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5.0
from 10 reviews
5.0
(10)
  • 27 years in business
  • 6 hires on Thumbtack
"They did a wonderful job. We told them what we wanted, they offered a few suggestions and everything turned out great. I couldn't have asked for a better wedding."
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Q & A

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How much does it cost to officiate a wedding?

The national average cost to hire a wedding officiant is $150-$200. Wedding officiant rates are affected by the date of the ceremony, the time of day, and how far the officiant has to travel. Some officiants may charge extra for additional ceremonies like unity candles or sand ceremonies, as well as the cost of the supplies. Many wedding officiants have higher rates for larger weddings and lower rates for smaller, more intimate ceremonies. Personalizing the ceremony means a lot to some couples. Wedding officiants may have flat rates for standard ceremony templates, perhaps $100-$125, and charge more for a more customized experience, such as $150-$200. This allows the couple to collaborate with the wedding officiant as they are building a unique ceremony script. At the pre-wedding meeting, the officiant will ask whether the couple plans to write their own vows and how much input they have about the rest of the wording and flow of the ceremony. Additional planning meetings and extra communication can add up to a higher overall cost. If your venue has parking or other fees, you may need to pay on behalf of the officiant. Often wedding officiants can rent sound systems and wireless mics if you have an outdoor wedding location or venue that is not wired. These extras will also increase the overall cost.

What does it mean to officiate a wedding?

To officiate a wedding is to oversee the official union of two people in marriage. A wedding officiant is vested with the power to legitimize your union in the eyes of the court. An officiant also sets the tone for your ceremony, leading the couple through their vows and shaping the experience with the words they choose and the pace they set. An officiant may be based in a religious faith, may be an interfaith officiant, may be a secular officiant, or may be a friend or family member who has received ordination online.

You can have a traditional wedding officiated, or you can also have an officiant oversee a commitment ceremony, a vow renewal or an elopement. Once the wedding is complete, the officiant will ask you to sign the wedding certificate, and will then submit the document to the court on your behalf. This makes your marriage legal. Wedding officiants work with you no matter how simple or elaborate you would like your ceremony to be. The more involved wedding officiants are in the planning and customization of the ceremony, the more they will typically charge.

Who performs a wedding ceremony?

Anyone who is authorized by the court or a credible online source has the power to perform a wedding ceremony. Traditionally, wedding officiants were ordained members of a religious organization or civil officiants authorized by the court to legally marry two people. With the increasing customization and personalization of weddings, many couples are asking a friend or family member to become ordained and act as their wedding officiant. Wedding officiants can represent a wide range of backgrounds including Christian, Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, nondenominational, interfaith or nonreligious. There is no legally required structure for a wedding ceremony, so couples can customize the language of the ceremony and their vows in any way they desire (though members of some religions may have specific requirements). To legally validate the marriage, the couple and the wedding officiant must sign a marriage certificate after the ceremony verifying the date and names of those involved. The wedding officiant should then submit the certificate to the court, which will in turn mail an official marriage certificate to the newly married couple.

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