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Answers to commonly asked questions from the experts on Thumbtack.

What’s the best way to set up a consultation or an appointment with a wedding officiant during the COVID-19 pandemic?

The safest way to conduct a consultation during COVID-19 is virtually. Ask wedding officiants near you if they can have a phone call or a virtual appointment over video chat. If they can, make sure to ask them any questions you have about upcoming work. Discuss what precautions, if any, they have in place to ensure safety. You might consider asking if they accept digital payments or if they can complete the work remotely, without any in-person contact. 

Do wedding officiants offer remote or virtual services?

Reach out to wedding officiants in your area, and ask them if they can offer a remote or virtual ceremony. Some officiants may be willing to meet in person while maintaining 6 feet of distance, while others may prefer to conduct the entire service over the phone or a video call service such as Skype or Zoom.

Familiarize yourself with the social distancing rules in your community, city and state, and move forward only if both you and the officiant are comfortable with the arrangement. 

Are there ways to be safe if I hire a wedding officiant when social distancing?

If you decide to hire a wedding officiant when social distancing, ask if the officiant can offer remote services. Some wedding officiants are choosing to conduct services virtually and/or stand more than 6 feet away from the parties. Discuss possible arrangements with your wedding officiant, and familiarize yourself with your local community guidelines, as well as the CDC’s guidelines for social distancing. Only move forward if you and the officiant both feel comfortable.

You may want to implement extra precautions, such as using digital payments instead of exchanging cash, sanitizing all involved spaces and waving instead of shaking hands. 

Can I use digital payments to pay for a wedding officiant?

Ask your wedding officiant if they accept digital payments. Many professionals are accept payment via Venmo, PayPal, Square Cash, Apple Pay, Zelle and other online platforms. Professionals may be more willing to switch to digital payments during the COVID-19 pandemic, as this is typically considered safer than using cash or credit cards. You can see which digital payment options officiants accept by reviewing their online profiles.

Does a wedding officiant need to enter my home?

This depends on the location of your wedding. Unless the ceremony is being held in your home, a wedding officiant will not need to enter your home before the ceremony. Some couples are choosing to stand outside or go to a vacant public place, so the officiant can conduct the ceremony while maintaining 6 feet of distance. Ask your wedding officiant what kinds of arrangements they offer, including virtual or remote services.

How much does it cost to officiate a wedding?

The national average cost to hire a wedding officiant is $150-$200. Wedding officiant rates are affected by the date of the ceremony, the time of day, and how far the officiant has to travel. Some officiants may charge extra for additional ceremonies like unity candles or sand ceremonies, as well as the cost of the supplies. Many wedding officiants have higher rates for larger weddings and lower rates for smaller, more intimate ceremonies. Personalizing the ceremony means a lot to some couples. Wedding officiants may have flat rates for standard ceremony templates, perhaps $100-$125, and charge more for a more customized experience, such as $150-$200. This allows the couple to collaborate with the wedding officiant as they are building a unique ceremony script. At the pre-wedding meeting, the officiant will ask whether the couple plans to write their own vows and how much input they have about the rest of the wording and flow of the ceremony. Additional planning meetings and extra communication can add up to a higher overall cost. If your venue has parking or other fees, you may need to pay on behalf of the officiant. Often wedding officiants can rent sound systems and wireless mics if you have an outdoor wedding location or venue that is not wired. These extras will also increase the overall cost.

What does it mean to officiate a wedding?

To officiate a wedding is to oversee the official union of two people in marriage. A wedding officiant is vested with the power to legitimize your union in the eyes of the court. An officiant also sets the tone for your ceremony, leading the couple through their vows and shaping the experience with the words they choose and the pace they set. An officiant may be based in a religious faith, may be an interfaith officiant, may be a secular officiant, or may be a friend or family member who has received ordination online.

You can have a traditional wedding officiated, or you can also have an officiant oversee a commitment ceremony, a vow renewal or an elopement. Once the wedding is complete, the officiant will ask you to sign the wedding certificate, and will then submit the document to the court on your behalf. This makes your marriage legal. Wedding officiants work with you no matter how simple or elaborate you would like your ceremony to be. The more involved wedding officiants are in the planning and customization of the ceremony, the more they will typically charge.

Who performs a wedding ceremony?

Anyone who is authorized by the court or a credible online source has the power to perform a wedding ceremony. Traditionally, wedding officiants were ordained members of a religious organization or civil officiants authorized by the court to legally marry two people. With the increasing customization and personalization of weddings, many couples are asking a friend or family member to become ordained and act as their wedding officiant. Wedding officiants can represent a wide range of backgrounds including Christian, Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist, nondenominational, interfaith or nonreligious. There is no legally required structure for a wedding ceremony, so couples can customize the language of the ceremony and their vows in any way they desire (though members of some religions may have specific requirements). To legally validate the marriage, the couple and the wedding officiant must sign a marriage certificate after the ceremony verifying the date and names of those involved. The wedding officiant should then submit the certificate to the court, which will in turn mail an official marriage certificate to the newly married couple.

Reviews for Alexandria wedding officiants
Sitsofe B.
Bishop Frazier did an absolutely amazing job officiating our wedding! We were blessed to have him be a part of our big day!
Bishop Ronald A. FrazierBishop Ronald A. Frazier
Michael A.
What a pleasure it was meeting Mary!... She made it very easy to start our lives together! Super sweet, fun to meet, what a treat! So happy she was there to officiate our wedding!
Rev Mary StoneRev Mary Stone
Thumbtack Customer
Rev. Jamie was great. She helped us prepare our ceremony to suit our desires. When the wedding day arrived, she provided a calming presence to the entire wedding party. We received many compliments about Rev. Jamie from our guests. Would definitely recommend her to anyone desiring a great officiant
Rev. Jamie DeeRev. Jamie Dee
Saphia C.
I had an amazing experience with Rev Keaton! We knew from our first talk with her that she would make our wedding special. She is very dedicated to what she does and she exudes it! She personalized our wedding based on what she saw in our interactions with each other which was a great touch. She is a very sweet woman and was all smiles! If you're looking for a genuine officiant to make your wedding a success, she's it.
I Wed You LLCI Wed You LLC
Alycia F.
What can I say to even begin to express how happy we were to have found Mary? Right away, we knew that Mary was the perfect fit for us. We originally planned our wedding for early April, but had to postpone due to COVID-19 restrictions. Mary was there for us and easy to reach and communicate with through all of this sudden upheaval, and was able to officiate our very small elopement ceremony to honor our original wedding date. We were lucky enough to also snag her to officiate our postponed wedding later this year in September for our family and friends. Her attitude and presence is fun and upbeat, while still being able to get across the significance and emotional weight of your marriage. I couldn't have asked for more and I am so grateful that we found her.
Rev Mary StoneRev Mary Stone
Brianna F.
Reverend Hale officiated our wedding on August 4, 2018 in Alexandria, VA and we are so grateful to him! He made the planning process so fun and easy, and was so kind, accepting, and welcoming to us throughout our preparations. Reverend Hale responded to all of our emails, questions, and phone calls very quickly and professionally and was always so warm and patient. On our wedding day, he did an amazing job of making the ceremony very tailored and personal to us, and several people told me how much they liked him and how they were so impressed with him! We would definitely recommend Reverend Hale as an officiant and are so grateful to him for making our day so special. Thank you, Reverend Hale!
God's Anointed Ministry of EnrichmentGod's Anointed Ministry of Enrichment
Amy S.
We had a lovely wedding ceremony officiated by Rev Stone. Mary worked with us to design a personalized non-denominational ceremony for us and exemplified professionalism in our dealings with her prior to the big day. She engaged our guests to make it a participatory event and we fielded so many compliments from friends and family about the great job she did. We highly recommend Mary!
Rev Mary StoneRev Mary Stone
Cher D.
Norman is a fantastic person, competent and compassionate in assisting us in our wedding plans. We traveled from Texas and went on the Chesapeake Bay Christmas cruise. We were always in touch with Norman to verify all information. He went out of his way and met us at the ship in Alexandria Va and drove us to the court house to apply for our marriage license then he drove us to the Carlyle Mansion and officiated our wedding. His beautiful wife Giva so beautifully played a flute during our wedding. We did not have time to choose our vows but Norman must have listened to us talk a few times on the internet with him because he chose the perfect vows I would definitely recommend Norman for your wedding planning. Do not hesitate to get in touch with Norman, he’s the best!
Wedding Officiant, Norman ConnerWedding Officiant, Norman Conner
Tyra W.
We couldn’t have asked for anyone better to officiate our wedding. Our time with Diane, though brief, was very professional, personal, and customized. She was helpful in actually making our ceremony come to life, and also helped us think through things that we hadn’t previously considered. She was always available to answer questions, and even provided some insight on our vows! I am absolutely recommending her to my friends and family that may get married on the future!
Weddings by Rev. Diane HirschWeddings by Rev. Diane Hirsch
Thumbtack Customer
We are so very pleased with the way Rev. Dr. Norma Edwards officiated our intimate wedding ceremony held in Alexandria. We were impressed with her time and effort spent to get to know us as a couple. Her interaction with our family and friends before and after the ceremony was equally impressive. She did an outstanding job! My husband and I agree that there isn’t anything to improve. We love her style and are extremely satisfied with our choice in her. N. Harris-Williams
WeddingsByRevNorma - Ceremonies and CounselingWeddingsByRevNorma - Ceremonies and Counseling
William M.
I couldn't be any happier working with this amazing fantastic man! He is hands down the greatest officiant anyone could ever want. He spoke in a loud professional loving manner at our wedding ceremony, he helped us orchestrate the sequence of events for the ceremony, and he went above and beyond the call of duty when he was running back and forth relaying messages moments before the ceremony to make sure everything went smooth. I would recommend Norman to anyone and everyone. Will post pictures later when they come in of the ceremony.
Wedding Officiant, Norman ConnerWedding Officiant, Norman Conner
Carlos Z.
Our special day could have not gone better without Jamie officiating our wedding! Jamie walked us through every step since the day we engaged her services. She gave us options to choose from and answered our questions in a timely manner. On the day of, she arrived early to greet our guests. During the ceremony, she read the vows at a decent pace, not rushed. She joined us at the end for some photos. We recommend Jamie to anyone who wants their special day to unforgettable.
Rev. Jamie DeeRev. Jamie Dee
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